Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Welcome friends and family to this glorious day here in Boulder, Colorado. We all want to acknowledge the parents of the bride, Sobee and James, and those of the groom, Bob and Ginny. And of course, this could not occur without the entire cast of family and friends.This is a great day. Let the celebration begin.The great German philosopher Goethe said “Love is an ideal thing, marriage is a real thing”. Today we gather here to witness the marriage vows of Nicholas Andrew Dronen and Cheng-Hsi Ho. This marriage, my friends, is the real thing. It is no accident.A very smart individual, Dr. Albert Einstein, commented: “Graviation can not be held responsible for people falling in love”. This marriage is far more profound than the passive forces on this earth. Nick and Cheng-Hsi – their relationship – is far more stunning than chance.Nick met Ms. Cheng-Hsi Ho relatively recently. They had a very comfortable friendship. One evening my wife Mary and I had a dinner with the now bride and groom. We were at our home, and could recognize something very special between these two. Nick, at that time, did not. Yes, he thought Cheng-Hsi was a great woman and a fine friend.But give Nicholas credit. He dug deep (at times, over the years, we weren’t sure he would or could), and he recognized that Cheng-Hsi was a really special woman. Someone he could love, cherish, and most importantly, share his life with. This is Nick's part on this specialday. He recognized Cheng-Hsi Ho. He saw deeper than just the everyday activities, the meals they were sharing. If this would not have happened – recognition – we would not be gathered here today.Cheng-Hsi as well had her part to play to bring us all together today. Recognition of Nick of course was essential to walk the path of marriage. But let’s look closely at Ms Cheng-Hsi Ho. Cheng means receiving something old and making it better. Hsi means happiness. I have studied Chinese philosphy and the traditional medicine of China for my entire adult life. However, I don’t have command of the language, so please, give me some leeway here in my interpretations. With Cheng, we are talking about a process of transformation ... of taking the routine daily activities of life, sometimes not all that glamorous, and making them into glorious events. Making better old routines, old patterns of behaviour.Cheng-- receiving, transforming. Hsi-- Happiness. Who could ask for anything more?And that is where we, the community of friends and family, come in. We have the job of recognizing the marriage of Nick Dronen and Cheng-Hsi Ho. It is our job, as their friends and family, to witness the commitments and the vows that we are about to hear. And we need to embrace them, in support of our dear friends. Because, God knows, there will be times they may forget how happy they are in this moment Let’s make sure we remind them, and reflect this back to them, to support them, to nourish their marriage.Interestingly, Nicholas, from the Greek language, comes from two root words – Victory and People. We are the community – The People – and this sure feels like Victory to me.May Nicholas and Cheng-Hsi succeed beyond our and their wildest dreams. The great Chinese philosopher, Lao Tze, says: “Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.” We have the entire Universe supporting us. There is nothing to worry about.Friends, let us continue with the Celebration. I call forth my wife, Mary Saunders, to read several poems.
I cursed the rain forpounding upon my roof and drivingaway sleep.I cursed the windfor ravaging my garden.Then you entered; and I gave thanksto the rain because you must put offyour wet dress; and I gave thanks tothe windthat he came and blew out my lamp.-- Chang Wu-Chien
O Marvel! a garden amidst the flames.My heart has become capable of every form:it is a pasture for gazelles and a convent for Christian monks,and a temple for idols and the pilgrim's Ka’ba,and the tables of the Torah and the book of the Quran.I follow the religion of Love: whatever way Love's camels take,that is my religion and my faith.-- Ibn Arabi
The TrueLoveThere is a faith in loving fiercelythe one who is rightfully yours,especially if you havewaited years and especiallyif part of you never believedyou could deserve thisloved and beckoning handheld out to you this way.I am thinking of faith nowand the testament of lonelinessand what we feel we areworthy of in this world.Years ago in the HebridesI remember an old manwho walked every morningon the grey stonesto the shore of baying seals,who would press his hatto his chest in the blusteringsalt wind and say his prayerto the turbulent Jesushidden in the water,and I think of the storyof the storm and everyonewaking and seeingthe distantyet familiar figurefar across the watercalling to them,and how we are allpreparing for thatabrupt waking,and that calling,and that momentwe have to say yes,except it will not come so grandly,so Biblically,but more subtlyand intimately in the faceof the one you knowyou have to love,so that whenwe finally step out of the boattoward them, we findeverything holdsus, and everything confirmsour courage, and if you wantedto drown you could,but you don’tbecause finallyafter all this struggleand all these years, you don’t want to any more, you’vesimply had enoughof drowning, and you want to live and youwant to love and you willwalk across any territoryand any darkness,however fluid and howeverdangerous, to take theone hand you knowbelongs in yours.-- David Whyte
You know, my Friends, how bravely in my HouseFor a new Marriage I did make Carouse;Divorced old barren Reason from my BedAnd took the Daughter of the Vine to Spouse.For "Is" and "Is-NOT" though with Rule and Line,And "UP-AND-DOWN" by Logic I define,Of all that one should care to fathom, IWas never deep in anything but -- Wine.-- Rubaiyat by Omar Khayyam
True love will find you in the endYou'll find out just who was your friend
Don’t be sad, I know you will,
But don’t give up until
True love finds you in the end.
This is a promise with a catch
Only if you're looking will it find you
‘Cause true love is searching too
But how can it recognize you
Unless you step out into the light?
But don’t give up until
True love finds you in the end.
Ladies and gentlemen, I am Cheng-Hsi's father. Please look at me carefully. Today is a big day. It is also an historical moment. We are so glad to attend this wedding ceremony. Congratulations! Nick, you are so lucky to marry my daughter, Cheng-Hsi. She is very kind, diligent, and humble. Also she is as beautiful as an angel. You are now building a home, a sweet home, and a family. I love her so deep and so much. She is my heart. Please love one another ever and forever. Well, if i were President Obama, I would speak fluent English. If you do not understand what I say, please pretend to understand. Ginny! Bob! I really love my daughter. Please love her as your own. Nick! I trust you and believe you are a good husband. And certainly Cheng-Hsi is a good wife. I promise you, Nick! You have something to do, whatever that is, to contribute to your family, society, nation, and all mankind. That is my wish. God bless you! Thank you.
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Sunday, August 01, 2010
Who is Don Draper?
Even Don Draper probably doesn't know who Don Draper is, but what we know is that he has two selves -- a private self and a public one, a past self and a present one, one that he is and one that he pretends to be -- and what's withheld and revealed about them constitute much of the show's appeal. You have to give Matthew Weiner credit for creating a great character. I suspect he put a lot of thought into Don, and I'm certain that Don's names -- Dick Whitman and Don Draper -- are deliberately crafted as hints to the answer to the question, who is Don Draper? Certainly, other characters have names that somehow give you a sense of who the character is in their particular world -- Peggy Olson and Pete Campbell come to mind -- but Don is a man with more names than one, and he's the simmering star of the show (except for Peggy, of course), so without further ado, I'll explain them.
Dick Whitman. First name first. This one needs no explanation, just the background, but I really have to wonder whether Don's philandering (or, this season, general man whorishness) is motivated by a desire to connect in some way to his late mother. Whitman. This one's hard to explain, but I've come to think of his advertising genius as a kind of American poetry, sort of like this guy's. It's almost messianic, like he sees his role as the caretaker of the American psyche. Take, for instance, the first line in this important moment between Don and Peggy last season:
- Don Draper: No. Because there are people out there who buy things, people like you and me. And something happened. Something terrible. And the way that they saw themselves is gone. And nobody understands that. But you do. And that’s very valuable.
- Peggy Olson: Is it?
- Don: With you or without you I’m moving on. And I don’t know if I can do it alone. Will you help me?
- Peggy: What if I say no? You’ll never speak to me again.
- Don: No. I will spend the rest of my life trying to hire you.
don vt 1: to put on (an article of wear) 2: to envelop oneself in :ASSUMEThe idea being, of course, that Don Draper -- the cipher, as he's called in the fourth season's first episode -- is a facade.
draper n, chiefly Brit: a dealer in cloth and sometimes also in clothing and dry goods
drapery n 2: a: a decorative piece of material usu. hung in loose folds and arranged in a graceful design b: hangings of heavy fabric used as a curtain
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Thursday, June 17, 2010
The Wrongness, The Wrongness!
This is so wrong. NCAR, the National Center for Atmospheric Research, in Boulder is opening a supercomputing facility in Wyoming. Their facility in Boulder isn't suited to house the massive clusters of computers needed to support the center's research, which includes the study of climate change. A mere 10% of the Wyoming facility's power will come from wind. The remaining 90%, presumably from coal. Armageddon reimagined: supercomputers dedicated to research on climate change consume more and more coal-generated electricity, which adds more carbon to the atmosphere, thus accelerating the warming of the planet, resulting in gobs more federal funding for the study of climate change, and more supercomputers, with the concomitant carbon -- an accelerating cycle of supercomputers, carbon, and rising temperatures.
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Monday, May 31, 2010
These Made Me Ha-a-appy
I'm putting together a list of flicks for a fellow cinephile. The criteria for the list are (1) it should be something I think he hasn't seen and (2) it should have been made in the last ten years. There will be exceptions to the second criterion. It was originally going to be all Asian films, too, but there are just too many good ones made everywhere. Ultimately, they're in the list because watching them was profoundly pleasurable.
- You, the Living Sweden, 2007
- Silent Light Mexico 2007
- Memories of Murder Korea, 2003
- Mother Korea, 2009
- Yi Yi Taiwan, 2000
- Goodbye Solo USA, 2008
- Cache France, 2005
- Syndromes and a Century Thailand, 2006
- Beau Travail France, 1999
- Zatoichi Japan, 2003
- Let the Right One In Sweden, 2008
- Private Fear in Public Places France, 2006
- Waltz with Bashir Israel, 2008
- Taste of Cherry Iran, 1997
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
When 5% is too much
It's just criminal that a single industry generates %5 of man-made carbon:
Cement manufacture contributes greenhouse gases both directly through the production of carbon dioxide when calcium carbonate is heated, producing lime and carbon dioxide, and also indirectly through the use of energy, particularly if the energy is sourced from fossil fuels. The cement industry produces about 5% of global man-made CO2 emissions, of which 50% is from the chemical process, and 40% from burning fuel. The amount of CO2 emitted by the cement industry is nearly 900 kg of CO2 for every 1000 kg of cement produced.
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Saturday, May 29, 2010
Why do News Corp editorials hate reality?
In an interview in this week's edition of Barron's, Ray Dalio of Bridgewater Associates, a fund with institutional assets of $75 billion, explains in six simple sentences why inflation is not a problem right now. This is from the print edition; the interview is available online to subscribers.
Explain why the printing of money won't cause inflation.Six sentences, including actual facts, spoken by someone who is actually responsible for other people's money (and a lot of it). Compare this to last week's inflation hawk editorial by Barron's editor Tom Donlan, in which he seems to desire to make the opposite case -- an argument for contractionary policies -- but instead wanders off on an embarrassing digression about old bonds and barely manages to burp out some you'll-be-sorry warnings about inflation.
The printing of money will offset the deflation that is coming from the weak demand for goods and services due to weak credit growth. For example, in March of 1933 the U.S. printed a whole lot of money, and that had the effect of converting deflation into modest inflation, but not a high rate of inflation.... My point is, in developed countries there is too much of most things at the moment, ad that's creating a deflationary environment. There is too much manufacturing capacity. There is too much labor. There is too much housing stock.
This is another case of a financial paper's journalism being sane and the editorial pages being completely unhinged from reality. Where else does this happen? Why, Wall Street Journal, which is owned by News Corp, which owns Fox News and, of course, Barron's.
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